I’ve often noted that many woman get away with what I deem ‘too much‘, or in actuality ‘not enough‘ at all and men still put up with it! I know countless women who withhold sex until they get their way (usually over something trivial), only perform blowjobs on “special occasions”, shutter at the mere thought … [Tell me more…]
Recently a guy told me that he was giving up BDSM after his first experience with me because I didn’t provide him with what he deemed an enticing encounter (i.e. I wouldn’t have sex with him). Now I don’t know which is more pathetic, the fact that he so haphazardly (and falsely in my opinion) … [Tell me more…]
I use to have another blog on this site that I used primarily for meticulously detailed information on how I was training my sub at the time. While I found it fun at the time it sort of petered out once we broke up and I haven’t updated it since. I was contemplating whether or … [Tell me more…]
I’ve had an interesting past couple of weeks. I’ve been really trying to get out and meet some new people, subs, switches, CDs, even some Doms. I decided to send a cutesy CD I’ve admired online a message, just asking if they’d like to have drinks sometime. To my surprise they agreed to almost immediately. … [Tell me more…]
…I actually don’t know what all women want, I only know what this woman wants. I have finally come to terms with what exactly I really want. Many of the things in my life have fallen into place except men. With me, men and relationships have always been an exhilarating roller coaster. I’ve been through … [Tell me more…]
Every person who takes the liberty of going down on a someone thinks that their technique needs no work. That the receiver, should be grateful that someone even went down on them. All of this is true but there’s even more. Let’s review what can be done to enhance your blowjob experience no matter your … [Tell me more…]
There is a phenomenon that I have noticed within the BDSM community that I cannot stay quiet about any longer. It’s something that makes me stick out like a sore thumb at events, on websites, and even among fellow kinksters. Being black. I’ve noticed that I rarely come across black Dommes and even rarer are … [Tell me more…]
I received the CB-6000 I ordered a while ago. What’s a cock cage without a cock? I was really happy to have it but quickly realized that I didn’t have anyone to cage up. No one to train, spank, tease and then so skillfully deny. It’s been about 10-15 days now without my former … [Tell me more…]