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The ‘Golden Ticket’ to submission

March 5, 2023 by d20domme Leave a Comment

“Greetings to you, the lucky finder of this Golden Ticket, from Mistress d20domme! I spank you warmly on the bottom! Tremendous things are in store for you! Many wonderful surprises await you!“ If you’re American, you are no doubt familiar with the tale of Roald Dahl’s 1964 novel ‘Charlie and the Chocolate Factory‘. Willy Wonka, the founder of … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Relationships Tagged: bdsm, community, D/s, domination, FemDom, relationships, self awareness, submission

No, I won’t break you

March 5, 2020 by d20domme

“Mistress, please just break me down.”“I’ll be anything you want.”“Remind me that I am nothing.” These are all “sexy phrases” I’m assuming submissives have heard or seen in porn or worse? I say assume because for me, phrases like these immediately take me out of my dominant headspace and replaces it with a big “huh?!”. … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community, Contributions, Thoughts Tagged: bdsm, domination, empowerment, power exchange, self awareness, self love, self-care, submission

The caliber of a Fem(dom)

October 27, 2019 by d20domme

I won’t bore you with the usual caution to not trust just anyone, no matter the size of their toybag. I will, however, share with you some things I’ve cultivated and strived for over the years to become what I consider, a Femdom of respectable caliber. It varies greatly when we get to the specific … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Community, Femdom Tagged: bdsm, consent, domination, FemDom, newbie, submission, thoughts

Rant: The Disposable Domme™

March 1, 2018 by d20domme

You’re not a good dominant if you don’t have a way to make ends meet.You’re not a good dominant if you’re free loading on friends or family.You’re not a good dominant if you don’t have control of your own life. I know that sounds harsh and comes off as elitist but it’s my honest opinion. … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Rants Tagged: bdsm, domination, female domination, FemDom, rant, safety, self awareness, self-reflection, submission, thinking

The domesticated Domme

October 31, 2015 by d20domme

The role of ‘Susie Homemaker’ has never appealed to me. I hate dishes.I loathe ironing.And window washing?! Death by watching paint dry please! But I’ve found I love vacuuming, it’s soothing. Dusting makes it easy for me to be excited by the visible progress and wiping the kitchen down creates a aura of “win” within … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: affection, bdsm, domination, female domination, FemDom, male submission, power exchange, submission, travel

Building blocks of trust

June 3, 2013 by d20domme

The boy has asked for more D/s in his life.  I’ve been cautiously giving him a little taste here and there hoping to tide him over until I decide if he’s ready for a full course meal. He has now told me he is hungry and he has a craving.  Externally he can handle nearly … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: bdsm, domination, female domination, mental domination, self-reflection, submission, trust

Wet behind the ears – Part II

September 26, 2012 by d20domme

His pupils dilated. He never said how rough (or not rough) I could be. Instead all he had said was, “Use my body.”A And I was doing just that. I loosened my group from around his Adam’s apple and pushed him to the ground with my pointed toes. He had removed my heels earlier in … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: assplay, bdsm, domination, female domination, FemDom, male submission, no limits, queening, submission, tease and denial

Wet behind the ears – Part I

August 29, 2012 by d20domme

He had agreed to this.To give me his body.Granting me full control to use it how I saw fit. He wasn’t a submissive but he had what I’d call “submissive tendencies”. Our relationship thus far had proved that much. Now it was time to see exactly how much he trusted me with his body. I … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal, Relationships Tagged: bdsm, bf, Bianca, domination, female domination, FemDom, male submission, obedience, relationship, submission, tease and denial

Are you a good witch or a bad witch?

July 3, 2012 by d20domme

“Oooohh ahhh”  The moans escaped his throat in a ragged jumble of sounds. I watched him arch his back in the air, lifting his thin frame above the mattress as my nails dug deeper into his flesh, the white tips of them disappearing into his stomach. We had been like this for what seemed like … [Tell me more…]

Posted in: Femdom, Personal Journal Tagged: biting, domination, female domination, FemDom, male submission, poly, submission
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