Keep your standards too high I’ve been told on more than one occasion… ‘Wow you have really high standards.’ or ‘Maybe your standards are too high.’ The thing is, I don’t believe in having “too high standards”. I believe in unrealistic standards – they can be high, low, or just shit. Over the years in … [Tell me more…]
Poly people, sit down, *whew*, let’s have a chat. Oh wait, let me dial the ENM participants in as well, they’ll want to hear this. Yes, I know they’re new around here but this is for them too. Everyone here? Great, get comfortable, but not too comfortable, as that seems to be part of the … [Tell me more…]
It’s a new year and as we all like to pretend it’s time for change. Real change this time, right?Whether you like it or not, it is as Heraclitus said, ‘Nothing is permanent except change.’ It’s inevitable. So why do we hate it so much or fight it when it’s presented to us? Simply put, … [Tell me more…]
Well, this is my personal decree that I am, as of this year, 100% done playing with newbies in the kink community. I know that sounds harsh and elitist but, that’s my preference now. Blame stupid boys for being stupid. After years and years of painstakingly meeting new submissives, coddling cucks, cultivating what appears to … [Tell me more…]
This month I sat down and chatted with some amazing humans by the name of Miss Melody Pond and HiThereCatsuit a.k.a. Jon, for a feature on What Women and Other Wonderful Humans Want. A few lightning rounds of kinky questions before we dove in and discussed…. Listen to us geek out on kink and more … [Tell me more…]
Have you missed me? Have you survived? Thrived? Barely both? Hang in there, things are looking up in this crazy new world of ours. While I am still taking a much needed break from fulltime kink, I can’t resist the subby siren call of Locktober. As you all know, Locktober is the most wonderful time … [Tell me more…]
I’ve been in the kink community for more than a decade. I have met some people who I’ve wanted to learn more from, those who have unfolded to be a cautionary kink tale for me, good friends, amazing presenters, wild newbies, people who wanted to share some of their most desired kinks with me, and … [Tell me more…]
I knew, as it was still the times of COVID that this was the safest bet. As much as I wanted to see him, he had just been visiting with friends who traveled from a high risk location. He had to be quarantined from me, it was the right thing to do. I tried to … [Tell me more…]
When I make my mind up it’s hard to change. Not impossible but you will have your work cut out for you. With that in mind, when I decided I wanted a submissive in my life, wanted a life of D/s, and decided I was going to give this my all, well, it was and … [Tell me more…]