People often ask me as a Mistress, what puts me in the mood and what my personal style for playing/doing a scene is?
As for what gets me in the mood…that’s easy, a very submissive male. A good sub who says all the right things can have me thinking of him for days. Just hearing something along the lines of: You own me, I am yours, Anything you wish, it all pleases me. I am also a very visual person (perhaps this is where my Photography passion is fueled from) but if I lay down and imagine the things I am going to do to a sub, this is a sure-fire way to keep me in a highly sexual and Mistressy mood.
Anything that involves collars, leashes, restrictive wear (think CB6000, blindfold, cuffs, etc), whips, and kneeling is definitely up my alley. As much as BDSM is mental, I love the physical reflection of that inner feeling.
For anyone who has had the pleasure of serving me, they may know that I can be a strict Miss. I love what I’ve dubbed as RRP: Rules, Rituals, and Protocols. Not only does getting to dictate the things one needs to do upon entering my house make me feel powerful, I also like to know my subs are paying attention and respecting me by remembering the things I have told them.
I try not to go extreme (high) with the protocols (because I could!), but I write lists, require assignments at time, like to decide when my subs may enjoy physical release, and even like forms of playful submissiveness in public. But most of all, I think I enjoy thinking up punishments!
Along with my rituals and routines comes punishment if you foul up…and with so many little things to remember, it’s almost a catch-22 that my sub will. Did I mention I can be a bit devious at times?
There are the few subs who after a few punishments make it their number one priority to impress me and complete tasks without any errors…and they are rewarded accordingly. I like to think that I am as playful as I am strict and all in all, but subs that can follow my lead and play along are the best!
I love the idea of serving my wife as you have described. Rituals such as kissing her feet, worshiping her ass while being denied her most delectable bits for a time of her choosing and even forms of public submission. These are all things I fantasize about. She does not know how to be in control nor does she realize the control she could wield over me. She melts all my defenses with just heels and a skirt and she has no idea and does not use it to her advantage or pleasure. She also has no idea how far I would be willing to go to fulfill any desire of hers. I have this inner slave craving a mistress to control me and I try to bring out the Dom in her with little success.
Anyone who finds you, or a woman with your passion, for a few moments, hours.. a night or longer would be pretty lucky. I would imaging just a chance encounter, a few words and exposure to your aura, in a store for instance, could cause a man to pine for the unattainable and desire a mistress of his own to serve. I am enjoying your blog. Thank you.
Thank you very much Love4her, I am flattered. I'm sure your wife is an equally lucky woman to have such a submitting creature at her disposal =)