Sissy Husband: To have and to hold

With only hours left until my wedding, I ask myself…

What does being a sissy husband mean to me?

To me it means so much. It is a lifestyle choice that my Mistress and I are both entering and something that will remain with us, for potentially the rest of our lives. It isn’t something I take lightly. It isn’t a role we are playing, or something we will do once a week. I will forever be her sissy husband and she will be my femdom wife. I know we may not do BDSM every day or even every week, but I will always be her sissy husband. This to means keeping up with and maintaining Josy, making sure I dress up up regularly for her and making sure I am ‘sissy ready.’ This means making sure I am….

• Always as smooth as possible to receive her touch
• Regularly plugged and always ready to drop into sissy headspace
• Checking that my wife is happy and her needs are met
• Willing to always put her first, and will always do whatever it takes to be make her happy

Another very important part of being her sissy husband is fully buying into and embracing the reverse 1950’s dynamic we have spent so much discussing. By this I mean that she, as the head of the household, will make the majority of all decisions. Decisions about finances, and where (and with who) we live., where we vacation, what type of job I will have, what my allowance is, when I am allowed (if at all) out of my cock cage, how and where I sleep and what I eat. My femdom wife will rule all in our house but most of all, she will rule me.

I will continue to strive to be her obedient 1950’s picture perfect sissy husband, who will always do whatever she need. She is in charge, and although I will always give my opinion when it is requested (and maybe sometimes when it isn’t) I will always respect her decision and accept that she has final say. 

Finally being a sissy husband just means putting everything I have learned over the past 3 years into practice. Things like always being honest, always loving her, honouring and obeying her always. I am so excited to be her sissy husband and her my femdom wife. She is my Mommy, my Daddy, my femdom wife and my everything. I can’t wait to start our Female Lead Marriage…

Josy